While we know some dudes and people with penises just love a bit of prostate massage , what about women and vagina-havers? Although we don't have a prostate gland life is cruel anal fingering can still feel amazing because there are loads of nerves around there and it can also put pressure on your G-spot from inside. It also happens to be a great way to prepare for anal sex. These 10 women get very real about what it feels like to be fingered in the ass during sex. I also enjoy when he circles it and then taps it with his finger. Luckily we are very open and he reads me very well so I don't have to ask for it, but I am definitely not shy about vocalising what I need.
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If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth.
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Fingering means entering your own anus or someone else's anus with your finger. It is important to take your time when starting to finger someone and to use enough lube to prevent damage to the tissue. Make one finger moist with lube to prevent damage to both the outside and inside of your anus. Some men use spit when fingering, but unfortunately, spit dries up too quickly. It is better to use lube since it remains slippery for a long time.
If you've never had anal sex you may have a lot of questions about it. It's confusing because, on the one hand, it seems to be a more taboo, less frequently practiced kind of sex, one that requires special knowledge and care. And on the other, if you believe what you see in pornography, anal sex is just like any other kind of sex, no condoms, no mess, no communication required. The truth is somewhere in the middle.